Dear Harlan,
My boyfriend just broke up with me after five months. It was out of nowhere and unexpected. How can someone not be into it anymore, all of a sudden? We just had a wonderful Christmas — I could tell he put time and effort into my gift. He just helped me buy a car, which he also took out time into doing for me. I just cannot fathom how he could just decide that all the bad times were more significant than the good times. I have been thinking about all the times we enjoyed, even recently when he seemed happy. I just don't understand how he can let all those good times go. What I really want to know is, How can I get him to give me a second chance?
Holding On
Dear Holding On,
People don't just fall out of love. They slip and then fall. He's been slipping for a while. Asking him for a second chance implies you've done something wrong. You aren't wrong. This is just the painful side of dating. You need to give him space. You can't persuade this guy to be into you. He has to convince himself. Surround yourself with people who love you. If he comes back, then you can decide if YOU want to give HIM a second chance.
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