I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I want to take a break because of the distance. He doesn't want to take a break. I'm afraid that if I insist on taking a break, he will not want to get back together with me later on, should I realize it was a mistake. What do I do?
Second Thoughts
Dear Second Thoughts,
Let me translate the question:
Dear Harlan,
I love my boyfriend, but I just don't want to date him. I'm too afraid to break up because I don't know if I'll find anyone else, and then I'll be single forever. Should I stay with him even though I don't want to be with him?
When you look at the question this way, isn't the answer obvious? Here's the worst-case scenario: You break up and don't find anyone for a while, and go on new adventures by yourself. You can learn how to make yourself happy and discover new interests that will lead you to someone else who will make you even happier. As for your ex, plan on him dating other women and realizing that there is no one is better than you (smile).
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