My daughter will be turning 1 this year. Her cousin (my husband's niece) also shares the same birthday. My husband thinks its OK for the two of them to have a birthday party together. I do not feel the same. I think my daughter should have her own birthday party. I know she won't know the difference this year, but I feel the same way about any birthday party we will have for her. She should have her own special celebration. Am I being difficult?
Difficult Mom
Dear Difficult Mom,
Unless your daughter and her cousin have bad blood over some spilled milk, I can't see a compelling reason not to share a birthday. Sharing a day doesn't diminish its significance; it's not like sharing a wedding. I agree that the FIRST is a big deal, but it can be an even bigger deal with a cousin. Not only can you spare relatives having to spend two weekend days at two kids' parties, you can be even bigger (think live entertainment). Make sure there are two cakes, two birthday songs, two themes. Even if you want Pooh and your in-law wants My Little Pony this can work - it can work if you want it to work. With properly framed pictures and videos, your daughter will be able to enjoy her birthday for years to come. All that said, if you want your daughter to have her own party, don't let anyone stop you.
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