You find out that you have an STD called genital herpes from your ex-boyfriend and get treated for it! Now this is the point when you realize that you have to live with it for the rest of your life. Then you go through depression because every time some nice man tries to talk to you, you brush him away because you are afraid of what to say and how to tell this person. So you go to your doctor and ask "Can I have kids with this disease?" The doctor says yes, but to practice safe sex while on the treatment so you can improve. I don't believe that! I'm confused. I'm scared. I talked to my doctor already, and I hate that he gets my hopes up and makes me feel good. Who's going to accept me for this?
Shocked With Herpes
You find out you have genital herpes. You feel like damaged goods. You think that no one will want you. Then you do research. You discover that as many as 1 in 4 sexually active women have genital herpes. You then find out that there are support groups, medications and millions of people who can help you. You tell your ex, so he can tell anyone else that he has exposed. You start dating again, and discover that guys who care about you won't reject you. You relax, come to terms with your disease and live your life again. For more information, visit The National Herpes Resource Center at www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_overview.cfm.
ReplyDeleteBe reassured on several counts:
ReplyDelete1)Any person who truly cares for you will not let your herpes stand in the way of their love for you. I'm proof--my husband married me with full knowledge and full commitment. It can happen for you!
2)Herpes has become a business! Don't fall for the concept of having to take prescription drugs to keep it under control before you test, for yourself, the near "cure" I'm going to tell you about. This all natural, fairly inexpensive treatment has been PROVEN to be effective, and again, I am proof that it works!!! Find yourself some really high-quality, fresh, pure, undiluted essential oils of two types: 1)True Rose, and 2)Melissa. Store them in a cool, dry place until you need them. Then, at the very first sign of the familiar "tingle/itch"that occurs before a breakout, place a nice fat drop of either of these oils onto the tingly spot. The fresher the oils are, the more they will feel like a "burn." The "burning" sensation can be intense, but only last a couple of minutes. That's it. Now say bye bye to breakouts!! The cool part is that this very natural treatment has been known to drive some cases into permanent remission. As for myself, the first time I tried this, I was breakout free for seven years, and indeed, have only had three breakouts in the last fifteen years since I first tried this treatment, and they were very minor. See the proof for yourself in: Goldberg's "Alternative Medicine-The Definitive Guide," 2nd editon.
3)At any given moment, you are far more loveable than you think you are, and worthy of it, too!
4)Having herpes doesn't mean you are wrong, bad or dirty. It means you got unlucky. But look on the bright side, at least you got yours from someone you cared for at the time....I got mine at the age of 14 from a stepdad I could not stop. True story.
Don't despair! Hug yourself, and rest assured you will not be denied true love in your life because of this!